The stubbornness of children is a matter of daily concern for almost all parents. If children lose their temper, then they should be monitored properly so that they do not harm others. At that moment they should be moved to a new environment and everyone should pretend that nothing has happened.
It has been observed that if children are kept sited for as many minutes as their age, then their mood might cool down. The problem arises when parents also lose their temper with their children. In this case, it will be much more difficult to handle your children.
Always keep in mind that all the needs of your children cannot be met or rather should not be met. Children may be frustrated if their needs are not met but they need to understand how to overcome frustration and win the battle of life. Children should be made to understand very clearly that their unjust desire cannot be fulfilled.
One thing always keeps in mind is that children cannot say many things but they understand a lot. So, even if you have to meet the demand of your children, still never make them understand that you have succumbed to their demands. Otherwise, they will start blackmailing you. Children usually get angry if they are hungry, unable to sleep, or bored. Therefore, you have to make sure that your children eat and sleep well and do not suffer from boredom.
Generally, by the age of 4 years, children learn to control their anger fairly. Till that time as a conscious and mature parent, you have to stay calm and composed during times of trouble and instability.